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1. Check the 24-hour Spark Clock: Matches on DatingZen automatically expire if neither user breaks the ice within 24 hours. If it expired, you can revive the connection with 5 Sparks.
2. Active Chats Cap: If your chat inbox already has 3 active ongoing conversations, you must either message one of them or politely unmatch before starting a new chat.
3. Browser & Network: Ensure WebSockets are not blocked by a corporate VPN or adblocker. Refresh the browser tab or switch to mobile data.
Absolutely not. When both of you mutually like each other, chat is 100% free forever. DatingZen does NOT follow IndianCupid or Dating.com's practice of forcing users to pay just to read inbound mutual messages.
You can pause or cancel your DatingZen Gold subscription with 1-click at any time from your account settings or directly in your UPI app (PhonePe / Google Pay / Paytm Autopay). For accidental double-charges, email billing@datingzen.app with your UPI transaction UTR number for a prompt refund within 48 hours.
Tap the camera icon in your profile settings. You will be prompted to mimic a simple 3-second head turn or smile. Our automated biometric liveness system confirms you match your upload photos and grants you the green Verified Human ✓ shield.
Our human support team in Bengaluru is online 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
✉️ Email Support: support@datingzen.app